I happened to talk to her last week as well... I don't really remember what we were arguing and chatting... I only remember that she was pretty down! That's all I remembered for the conversation we had.
Oh yeah... I found out more about her... She is a Christian... yeah... she was talking about the Church she went to join on Sunday! She said she had heard a very good sermon...
One more thing we chatted... its about being forgotten... She said there were people who kept saying... in the long run, people tend to forget the ones who went away. She didn't agree on that... and she said nobody really forgets. Its just that people didn't mention them in their conversations. Because, just by mentioning the name, all the memories just flew back in. She insisted that nobody really forgets. I agree to some point as well... And I argued her back that for a forgetful person, the person can't help it. But what she argued me back is that... even the forgetful person, the memories come back as soon as the small connection of actions or phrases or things.
Whew..... let her be... :P
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Gloomy Her
Wow... Its nearly a year again! I rarely came online so I haven't met her at all... And its been a year long to not posting here anything. What have I been busying with... I can't name at all... Okay, its better to talk about her as I don't have anything to talk about myself.
That's what she said, "Thank God! You are online!" I was surprised to see her message. Then I asked her what was that about and she said she had been looking for me online to talk about her and she said to be precised she got a lot to complain. So, I replied her that I was ready to listen to her. Then she just started typing. She complained a lot about her life, her thoughts, and her work and so on. What she complained most is about her feelings and her ways of looking at things. And she mentioned that her depression was totally different from the others. She also mentioned that her adaptability level was totally different from others. And she also talked about an argument between her peers. What they argued was about the adaptability. The adaptability she talked about was in a situation like in a classroom, the opinion that all the students shared, she could just accept the opinion. She might mentioned her disagreement but she won't deny that opinion. But some students/people were not like that. That's the adaptability she talked about. But her peers said that was not called the adaptability, they said the adaptability was how you deal with the environment which in this case was students in the classroom. And she agreed to that point but she still told to her peers that the adaptability that she wanted to say was the idea/mind that you could accept to a certain point. Yet, they didn't come to a consensus! Hmm... When I think about this again, I think both of their idea are correct for me. Dilemma huh?
What else she complained to me about? Yeah, the depression... She said everyone got depression once in a while. At first, she doesn't agree to it. But later, she found out herself that, everybody was different from handling their depression. Like her, whenever she is depressed, she likes to sleep a lot, and doesn't want to do anything, and sometimes, she just keeps dragging the time. She said that's what she thought her depression was. I told her that it was different from each other. And we stopped our chat as I had to go out later that day! Hope she is back to normal. That's the gloomy her!
That's what she said, "Thank God! You are online!" I was surprised to see her message. Then I asked her what was that about and she said she had been looking for me online to talk about her and she said to be precised she got a lot to complain. So, I replied her that I was ready to listen to her. Then she just started typing. She complained a lot about her life, her thoughts, and her work and so on. What she complained most is about her feelings and her ways of looking at things. And she mentioned that her depression was totally different from the others. She also mentioned that her adaptability level was totally different from others. And she also talked about an argument between her peers. What they argued was about the adaptability. The adaptability she talked about was in a situation like in a classroom, the opinion that all the students shared, she could just accept the opinion. She might mentioned her disagreement but she won't deny that opinion. But some students/people were not like that. That's the adaptability she talked about. But her peers said that was not called the adaptability, they said the adaptability was how you deal with the environment which in this case was students in the classroom. And she agreed to that point but she still told to her peers that the adaptability that she wanted to say was the idea/mind that you could accept to a certain point. Yet, they didn't come to a consensus! Hmm... When I think about this again, I think both of their idea are correct for me. Dilemma huh?
What else she complained to me about? Yeah, the depression... She said everyone got depression once in a while. At first, she doesn't agree to it. But later, she found out herself that, everybody was different from handling their depression. Like her, whenever she is depressed, she likes to sleep a lot, and doesn't want to do anything, and sometimes, she just keeps dragging the time. She said that's what she thought her depression was. I told her that it was different from each other. And we stopped our chat as I had to go out later that day! Hope she is back to normal. That's the gloomy her!
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